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12 Foods That Improve Sex Drive

Walnuts improve the quality of sperm. It is known to improve the shape, movement and vitality of the sperm. Include walnuts in your diet to improve fertility.

Strawberries and raspberries
The seeds of these fruits are loaded with zinc which is essential for sex for both, men and women. If women have high levels of zinc their bodies find it easier to prepare for sex. In men, zinc controls the testosterone level which is responsible for producing sperm. It is important that men load up on zinc as their zinc levels reduces during intercourse.

Folic acid and vitamin B6 are both necessary for a healthy sex drive. Folic acid pumps the body with energy, while vitamin B6 stabilizes the hormones.

Watermelon improves your erection and increases your libido. They also contain citrulline which releases amino acids and arginine in the body. Arginine is responsible for vascular health.

Almonds contain arginine which improves circulation and relaxes blood vessels. This amino acid found in almonds helps you maintain an erection.


Dark chocolate releases serotonin and endorphins that improves your mood. It doesn’t improve libido but you will not be a grouch.

Consume eggs for healthy erection. Eggs contain amino acid L-arginine that can improve erectile dysfunction.

Vitamin C present in peaches improves sperm count and the quality of the sperm. Peaches contain high levels of vitamin C that is great for reducing infertility.

Coffee is a stimulant, hence spikes your sex drive. Coffee can stimulate the brain to heighten arousal.

Saffron is a natural aphrodisiac and should be consumed to improve your sex drive and your performance in bed. Saffron can also boost stamina and energy.

Steak is a great ingredient to boost your sex drive–it contains zinc, vitamin B, iron and protein. These compounds are essential for both men and women as they help improve the libido.



“Sex Drive Foods: Top 12 Foods to Improve Sex Drive – Times of India.” The Times of India, The Times of India, 6 Aug. 2018, timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/diet/Top-12-foods-to-improve-sex-drive/articleshow/21052188.cms.

Tips To Please Her Anally

Guys, St. Patrick’s Day Weekend is in just a couple of days and we want to help you get lucky by getting some ass. LITERALLY! Here are a few tips on how to please your special lady or ladies (we are swingers after all) anally.

#1 Use lube.

Lube will help create sensitivity and make things nice and slippery before performing any type of insertion.

#2 Start with toys.

Don’t go shoving your junk in there right away, especially if she is new to this. Do that, and you’ll never get any tail from her again! It’s a good idea to start with a small toy and play with her very shallowly. Keep in mind that you are trying to stimulate the nerve endings of the anus. There is no need to get ALL THE WAY UP IN THERE. Start with just the tip, guys! JUST. THE. TIP. 

#3 Work the booty.

Start off with a sensual ass rub. Get her used to you playing back there a bit with your hands. Make sure you have your lube handy and try gently dipping the tip of your thumb in and out of her. Fellas, I hope you already know this, but please don’t put that same finger in her vagina!

#4 Help her relax.

Help her relax by building her trust through communication about what she’s feeling and what she likes. Tell her how amazing her body looks to help her get rid of any insecurities. Again, a massage is a good idea here.

#5 Slow and steady wins the race.

Again, don’t just start shoving stuff up there! Slowly work your way in with your fingers or a small toy and progress from there. Anal play requires prepping, especially for a first-timer.

#6 Include additional stimulation.

There is a 95% chance that she’s not going to orgasm from anal play. You should use anal play as a complement to other sources of stimulation. For example, try licking her clitoris as you insert a finger into her bum. Vibrators work wonders too!


Try your luck at some tail at Trapeze this weekend! When was the last time you got your shamrocks off? Check out this weekend’s events lineup in Atlanta and South Florida.


Happy Swinging!

Fort Lauderdale’s St. Patrick’s Day Weekend

Ready to get lucky? Get ready to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day at Trapeze swingers club in South Florida this weekend! Don’t wait until the weekend to party. We have parties Wednesday – Sunday every week!


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Atlanta’s St. Patrick’s Day Weekend

Ready to get lucky? Get ready to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day at Trapeze swingers club in Atlanta this weekend! Don’t wait until the weekend to party. We have parties Wednesday – Sunday every week!


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The Do’s & Don’ts of Fingering a Woman

In honor of International Women’s Day coming up this Friday, we are giving you sex tips on how to please the ladies. Unfortunately, most women don’t orgasm from penetration. Perfecting the art of fingering a woman can lead her to an orgasm and keep her coming back! While working with your fingers may seem pretty straight forward, many make basic mistakes. With that being said, here are some Do’s and Don’ts of fingering a woman. You’re welcome!


Understand the anatomy

We all know what and where the vagina is, but do you REALLY understand all the little parts of a vagina? The vulva is made up of the pubic mound, inner labia, outer labia, clitoris, vaginal opening, and the perineum (which is located just beneath the vaginal opening). All of these areas are responsive to touch and should be included in the action.

Work from the outside in

Start off by tracing your fingers up her thigh and around her vulva. Next, explore her lips while applying a gentle pressure over her clitoris without touching it directly. Massage her vulva very gently and build up the speed and pressure over a period of about 15 minutes. By doing this, you are encouraging blood flow to her lady parts and making her more receptive to intense clitoral stimulation.

Listen to your partner

She will tell you when to increase pressure and intensity one way or another. If she doesn’t say it verbally, listen for her body’s signals. She may slightly shift her body to adjust your position, her breathing might get faster, and her body may tense up.

Cut your nails

Are your nails long, rigid, and dirty? If so, keep those babies to yourself! Your long nails are the equivalent to a woman who doesn’t know how to keep her teeth out of the way during oral sex. No bueno!


Start with the clitoris

First off, the clitoris is at the center of the vulva. Hopefully, you already knew that. The clitoris has about 8,000 nerve endings that extend deep into the pelvic area and surround the vagina. Touching this gem before she’s ready can send those 8,000 nerve endings into a painful frenzy. Get her nice and warm first! Direct clitoral contact should come last! If she doesn’t jerk or shy away when you touch it, you’re good to go!

Touch her before she’s wet

It is a must that your partner be wet before you do too much touching. It’s completely okay (and recommended) to use lube! Your partner will enjoy your touch 1000x more if everything is nice and slippery. Not to mention, touching her dry clitoris directly might get you kneed in the crotch!

Rush through it

When it comes to fingering a woman, think marathon, not sprint! Slow and steady will surly win this race! Her vulva loves slow, sensual stimulation. You want to make sure the vulva becomes plumper and her clitoris becomes hard – and yes, women can get hard too!


Happy Swinging!