This Is The Halloween Costume You Should Wear If You Want To Get Laid

Written by Sheena Sharma on

If you’ve been suffering from a dry spell, this Halloween is your chance to break it. You just have to dress the part.

According to an analysis by Pornhub Insights, dudes should dress up as Captain America this year if they want to find a girl to take home for the night.

Oh, and don’t worry, ladies. I didn’t forget about you. If you want to get yours this Halloween, you should be dressing up as Batgirl. (Tight, black leather is timeless and sexy AF!)

Guys should dress up as Captain America, and girls should dress up as Batgirl.

The findings were based off of Pornhub’s most popular user searches.

Users are generally into costume fantasies, but around this time the of year, users tend to search for porn with actors who are dressed up in these particular costumes:

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As you can see, women are 116 percent more likely to be interested in searching for a Captain America. But if Captain America isn’t your style, you can also grab a lady’s attention by dressing as Spiderman, a vampire or even a clown.

Men, on the other hand, are 170 percent more likely to search for Batgirl. But if Batgirl is too played-out for you, you can also increase your chances of scoring in the sack if you dress as a black widow, cat or witch.

OK, I know “cat” and “witch” aren’t exactly the most innovative costumes. But they are classics, and these are pretty big percentages we’re talking about here. So, they are NOT to be taken lightly if you’re really serious about getting some action between the sheets this weekend.

Ladies and gentlemen, it’s time to let your freak flag fly on Halloween with any of these costumes.



11 Halloween Sex Positions to Satisfy All Your Cravings

Written by Jill Hamilton on

No matter what candy you plan on eating in bulk this year, the only thing sweeter and more deliciously indulgent is a bunch of orgasms. So put those costumes to good use and (trick-or-)treat yourselves!

1. Howlin’ Doggy

For deeeeep penetration, sit on your partner’s lap, facing away with your hands in front of you for support. Match their thrusts and it’s like doggy but howlingly feral.

2. The Power Play

You’re already wearing the costumes, so bust out the role-play. Try an imbalance of power, like a villain capturing a superhero or a private investigator having dirt on someone really bad. Coordinate your costumes ahead of time so you rock the halloween party AND the bedroom. Knowing the fun you’ll have later makes the house party before basically foreplay!

3. The Sugar Rush

Let your partner go trick-or-treating on your body by putting tiny dollops of flavored lube wherever you want their mouth. (New flavored options are waaay better than the gross strawberry of yore and come in dessert-y/coffeehouse flavors like tiramisu.) Pick a condom-and-toy-safe lube (aka a water-based one) and you can take it further if you want.

4. Trick Or(al) Treat

Put candy into service as a BJ enhancer. Pop something smooth and round like Skittles, Reese’s Pieces, or M&M’s onto your tongue, and hold them against the underside of their shaft as you slide your mouth up and down. (You can also use something minty or cinnamon-y if they’re into more intense sensations. But ask first—not everyone appreciates surprise spice.) Use your tongue to roll them around the head or wiggle them against the frenulum. Wrap a Red Vine or a strip of Laffy Taffy around the base of their shaft for a makeshift cock ring, then nibble it away (carefully!).

5. The Spider

Sit their ass down in a wide chair and climb up so you’re facing them, putting your feet on the chair on either side of their bum. Wrap your arms loosely around their shoulders and let them appreciate the gorgeous visuals. Mix it up with long, sweet kisses and opening and shutting your knees as you see fit. (Pro tip: Afterward, don’t kill and eat them like a real spider would.)

6. The Twizzler Tie-Up

Go off label with a pack of Twizzlers or some candy rope, tying a string of them to bind your partner’s wrists together. Straddle them, holding their wrists down to remind them who’s in charge (obvi, consent first before you go all BDSM on them). When you’re ready to allow them to touch you, just munch it off. Sex + convenient mid-bonin’ snack = gets no better.

7. The Cave Crave

Time to make that bed rock. Your partner lifts your butt in a very primal, need-you-now way, in a position that lets you both stroke whatever needs to be stimulated while gazing lustfully at each other. Try it by candlelight for some extra fire.

8. The Vampire’s Kiss

Lean back against a kitchen counter, wrap your leg around your partner, and throw your head back to reveal a much underappreciated erogenous zone: your neck. Grab their butt, squeeze, and pull them in deeper while they kiss and suck your bare neck. Cape optional (but let’s be real: highly recommended).

9. The Warlock’s Brew

Let your partner enchant you via penis magic with a wicked 90-degree twist on missionary. As they thrust, circle your hips so it’s like they’re stirring your cauldron, double-doubling your orgasms.

10. The Bewitching Bat

Lie on your back with your legs spread and knees bent. Your partner puts their hands together, bending their ring and middle fingers toward their palms. They slide their two pointer fingers inside of you and circle your clit with two thumbs. They move their fingers kinda like bat wings, you orgasm, everybody wins.

11. The Broomstick Ride

Have your partner lie on a narrow sturdy surface, like a coffee table. Plant your feet on either side of the table and mount them facing their feet in a sort of elevated reverse-cowgirl. Cast a spell over both of y’all by propping your hands on their legs and bending forward, leaning back, or tilting your pelvis to switch up the sensations. Circle your hips like you’re stirring a cauldron for some extra hocus pocus.




Written by Emily Anne on

Although it has become a cliché phrase, especially among the polyamory community, “unicorn hunting” is still very much a thing.

How often have I been swiping on Tinder and found couples looking for a “third”? A lot more these days.

As unicorn hunting makes its entrance into mainstream lexicon, let us remind ourselves that it is still a delicate practice with a lot of variables to consider.

Let’s start with some basics:


A unicorn can be any gender. Typically, a unicorn is referring to a bi-sexual woman who is open to having sex with a couple. In other words, a unicorn helps form a “threesome.” This type of unicorn hunting is what this article will be focusing on. Following these guidelines will help you avoid the pitfalls of finding a third. You’ll also hopefully learn how to properly treat a unicorn!


In polyamory parlance, “unicorn hunting” is where a couple looks to find one person who they can permanently invite into their relationship, forming what is called a “triad”.

In other contexts, “unicorn hunting” refers to couples looking to have some no strings attached fun with a unicorn to spice up their sex lives.


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Ahhh…the age old question I see countless times from couples seeking their first threesome. “Where can I find a unicorn?” To answer that question, you need to know the kind of threesome you are looking to have.

For example, are you looking for a relationship with the unicorn ala “triad” in poly? Or are you looking for NSA fun? Once you know what you’re looking for, you can begin your hunt with these three methods:


Odds are if you know kinky or sex positive couples, you might be able to network your way to some potential unicorns. It might sound a bit clinical, but word of mouth is still a great tool of the trade!

Swinger Clubs/Groups

I’ve been to many swinger functions and there tend to be some single female-identifying people there looking to play or as part of a throuple. Jumping into this world can lead to you to a larger pool of pre-qualified unicorns, since most who show up at those events are already showing they might be interested in hooking up with a couple.

Dating Apps

The tried and true method tends to be dating apps. Tinder, as well as Bumble, have been used for this purpose, but I have heard Feeld is a great way to find a third. There is a new app coming on the market called Zin, which offers more of a Craigslist-style post approach, allowing you to place a specific post describing what kind of unicorn you are looking for.


There’s a joke in here somewhere, but I want to say “gently” as you would a horse.

Imagine how you like to be pursued. Do you like to be aggressively hounded? Or wouldn’t you rather be handled with a light touch that isn’t needy or demanding? Do you want someone to be honest and forthcoming, or manipulative and veiled? Keep these tips in mind when approaching a potential third:

Be Honest

Be upfront about why you are reaching out to them. You should let them know in the first or second message what you are looking for – and be honest without being too blunt.

For example, don’t get on a dating app like Tinder and pretend to be a single man and then “drop the bomb” later that you are really a couple looking for a third. Not cool. Or, if you are a female on a dating app or at a party, don’t flirt with and hit on a potential unicorn as if you were single, when you are really trying to butter her up to play with you and your male boyfriend.

Keep It Cool

Be cool and be sexy!! Try to make a good impression like you would on any date. Ask them questions about themselves and what they are looking for. Your approach should consist of a nice greeting, a few honest and authentic compliments about them, as well as some information about yourself.

Leave the Drama At Home

Don’t involve the unicorn in your relationship drama. If you have jealousy issues, this is not the time to be seeking a third. Don’t have your partner be the one to reach out privately and then have issues with the unicorn’s communication with your partner. They will follow your lead. So don’t lead them into a situation that would make them uncomfortable discussing sex with someone’s significant other.


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After the “approach” you should take your unicorn out on a date. This could be as simple as coffee or a drink or if you want to extend it, you could even take them out to dinner. Sometimes one part of the couple can meet first with the unicorn to “vet” them and then introduce the other partner (usually the male). This is a chance to meet and greet and see if there is chemistry among the three of you.

As always, be upfront and honest about your intentions. This is a good time to talk about what sexual interests you have in common. I like to ask what the unicorn likes about being a unicorn and about their previous experiences. I also like to ask about things they don’t like – ways they were treated in the past that might not have worked well.

During the date, get to know the unicorn as you would a friend or potential date. Ask about their interests outside the bedroom. Again, just be cool.


If, after the meet and greet, you decide you are compatible and want to set up a play date, there are a few things to consider:

Boundaries and Expectations

Boundaries for everyone involved are really important when it comes to group play and alternative relationship styles. Part of selecting a third for a threesome is determining chemistry and a gut-level feeling of compatibility and whether someone respects your boundaries. For example, if you get a feeling the unicorn is attracted to only one partner of the couple, then it might not be a good fit, as it could cause some jealousy or tensions in group play.

Make sure you discuss ahead of time what is expected after the playdate, specifically, sleeping arrangements. Don’t make your unicorn Uber home in the early morning hours (unless they really want to). Find out ahead of time if the unicorn wants to sleep over and if so, decide where they will sleep.

Find Out What They Like

To get a sense of what common interests you all three share in the bedroom. You could go over this sexual exploration questionnaire and compare your answers. Figure out what type of play you want and if the unicorn is into or curious about the same things, including toys.

Be Kind

One of the biggest mistakes couples make in this context is having a play date with a unicorn and then abruptly kicking them out. Yes ok, we know that you may have been looking to spice up your sex life. But it is beyond not cool to treat them as non-existent after the play is over. They need and deserve your attention just like an individual partner would.

Safety First

This might go without saying, but let’s say it. Whenever you start having sex with a new partner, it’s a good idea for everyone involved to get tested. It’s no fun, but neither are STDs! For a quick test, use Same Day STD Testing. It’s quick, easy, and trust me, it’s worth it!


If you have these discussions and everything seems to align, then you have the makings of a fun threesome! And, you will have just hunted your unicorn in an ethical way.



Planning Your Swinger Gangbang


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Just as men have erotic fantasies involving two or more ladies at a time, women too imagine themselves having sex with multiple men at once. Arranging a swinger gangbang can be very a rewarding experience for both of you if that is what you personally enjoy. If you don’t know where to start, this step-by-step guide will teach you all you need to know to set up the event like a pro.

Understand What She Really Wants
The secret to a successful gangbang starts with understanding what the lady really wants. Ladies – if you are reading this, think about what you really want out of this. Gangbangs are a more advanced sex party involving a large number of people.  If you aren’t clear about what you want and do not want, things can spiral out of control quickly.There is a big difference between fantasy and reality. Some women enjoy imagining themselves having sex with multiple men at once, although they may not feel comfortable to actually do it in real life.  You both should think twice before proceeding because surprises are usually not fun during a gangbang.  Talk through your plans and make sure you are both comfortable with the idea before inviting anyone.

Understand Your Roles 
During a gangbang, things can easily get out of control unless there is someone overseeing it. Thus, the man’s role is usually not being one of the bangers. He is usually the coordinator and the one who ensures the lady’s safety especially if you are inviting men you have never met before.If the man is not comfortable with just watching and ensuring that things run smoothly, perhaps it would be better to ask another swinger you have met before to organize and coordinate the event.The lady also needs to participate and not just in having sex.  Before the gangbang, the lady should be involved in screening the men to ensure everyone is a good match.  You don’t want to have to reject anyone while you are in the middle of the gangbang.  The lady also needs to communicate with her man regularly during the gangbang so he knows if she is ok or if she needs anything.  Establish a few safety words and signs you can use to stay happy & safe.

Establish Rules and Limits For Your Gangbang 
It is crucial to establish swinging rules and follow the limits that the lady wants.  The rules helps everyone have a good time and greatly reduces the odds of a man accidentally ruining the sexy moment.  Men aren’t good mind readers but veteran swinging men are great at follow rules & instructions.  Make sure you clearly communicate with them your personal rules.Make a list with all off-limits activities and share exactly what can be penetrated and by which body parts. Think about full sex, oral, & anal activities.  What is and is not allowed?  What about rules regarding the use of condoms and ejaculate? Don’t assume anything.  Clearly communicate your preference and limitations to each man attending.

Determine The Size of The Event
Gangbangs can mean anything from your wife and three men to your wife and dozens of men. Although you can arrange an orgy of any size, starting small is the wiser option for everyone involved. You can always arrange a larger gangbang next time around.  Swingers tend to be flaky and no show but horny single men tend to always show up when there is an attractive sexy lady looking for fun. Play it safe and don’t over invite.

Find a Suitable Hosting Site
Once you determined the number of participants, it’s time to find a suitable hosting site for this orgy. A hotel room could be a suitable solution for a small bang, especially if you want to keep it as private as possible.  Some couples ask the visiting men to donate towards the cost of the hotel room or to bring some food or drink to be shared. Be careful in the USA with any payments.  They can open you up for arrest due to the FOSTA law.  Another option is to contact your local swinging club. Most clubs can host your party and even help you with the logistics and suggesting experienced single men good with following rules if you find it too overwhelming to arrange everything on your own. Swinging clubs apart, you can also find support, ideas, and even bangers on your local swinger dating websites.