Written by Jill Hamilton on Cosmopolitan.com

1. Licking the Beater

Kneel in front of your partner’s face and lower yourself to receive the bounty that is oral. If your partner elevates their head and with a few pillows, you can have several helpings of oral, you rubbing yourself and/or them rubbing you—without killing your thigh muscles.

2. The Melting Pot

If you have pain during penetration or just want to see if CBD might be the thing that puts you over the edge P-in-V orgasm-wise, a suppository might help relax you and/or enhance your arousal. Put it in your V and give it 15 minutes or so to melt into your body. (Also relaxes the bum for anal, but doesn’t do much for penises.) Get on top and rub your vulva as you grind–try CBD oil externally to start a new holiday tradition.

3. Gourd Vibrations

Post-feast sex where you barely have to do anything? Yes, please. Lie down and…well that’s it. You can hump your hand or a toy but other than that, you just need to give thanks that this is an acceptable (and surprisingly hot) way to have sex. (Also excellent if your partner is blessed, or especially over-blessed, size-wise.)

4. Wish Boned

Still too full to move? Lie down facing each other, pulling each other closer. Run your fingers through each other’s hair and gaze at each other’s eyes. What more do you need?

5. Get Stuffed

You are full. You are tired. Why stress? Lie flat on your backs and reach a hand over to your partner for some mutual masturbation. This might not seem the mooooost exciting, but it’s incredibly hot to look each other in the eye while you’re making your partner climax. Almost as good as that double helping of dessert.

6. The Plymouth Rock Hard

If your partner’s the one who overdid it, have them lie on their back and sort of hover over them, like you’re doing a crab walk (I know this doesn’t sound sexy—sex and anything about crabs doesn’t–but stay with me.) Hold yourself over them, bracing yourself on your feet and hands while they thrust up to meet you.

7. The Naughty Pilgrim

If you’re staying in someone’s house and need to be stealth and semi-efficient, go with toys that won’t wake up Grandma. Try your partner’s thumb rubbing your clit coupled with a realistic silicon dildo (like Buck, my secret boyfriend). You know, just a suggestion. And a nice lubey handjob with a masturbation sleeve will have the same effect on them. (Pack something non-vaginal looking so you don’t have to hide it in the bottom of your luggage.)

8. The Trussed Bird

Get on your back and have them take care of you from the top, pushing your legs slightly to the slide to penetrate you. (Warning: Do not eat a lot before this one. Don’t make me tell you why.) You can also take inspiration from dinner and have them bind you up. (A belt or a couple scarfs work just as well, too.)

9. The Basted Turkey

Top off a day of full-on decadence of by throwing some towels on the floor, lubing your bodies up with way too much massage oil. Straddle your partner for a wild, slippery f*ck, leaning down to slide your slick boobs across their chest. Finish the night with a shower and mutual scrub down, then tuck yourselves into bed.

 

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The term “creampie” is responsible for more than one swinger couple giggling while talking about desserts with their vanilla friends.  It sounds innocuous enough, but you’d be hard pressed to say it in a bakery with a straight face, and unless you’re really into cum you probably don’t want it in a pie. So what the heck defines a creampie anyway?

Well, the term creampie comes from porn, when semen is visibly seeping out of a vagina after having sex without a condom.  It’s so popular, in fact, that it’s one of the top-rated porn search terms.  Creampies can be an extreme post-orgasm turn-on for your sex partner, or an arousing spectacle in group or swinger gangbang scenarios. Taking a little extra time to enjoy the post-coital sensation of having cum inside you can be a highly erotic part of the experience and heighten the fun factor of a swinging scenario.

Receiving semen internally or externally can be very intimate, and some couples consider it an essential part of their sexual interaction that is reserved for their own private sexy time. The thought of being able to come inside your partner without wearing a condom can be arousing to both people involved, and can boost a sexual encounter greatly, because it heightens the connection between sexual partners.  Given the need to protect ourselves from STIs, it is more common to have it reserved for couples and not done between swinging partners.

In order for a creampie to take place, obviously, there has to be ejaculation without using a condom. That is a simple thing to understand, but there are some big considerations when you combine this act with the swinging lifestyle. Among these are consent, safety, and of course, a touch of swinger etiquette. If you like the idea of cum-play, but not necessarily a creampie, fear not! There are many fun options for you too.

Let’s get into it.

Safe Sex & Cum Play

Let’s cover what may be the most important and obvious issue involving internal ejaculation. You are not practicing safe sex when you skip the condom!  Not using a condom can be extra hot and heighten stimulation, however sharing fluids exposes you to the risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. To give yourself the best chance of staying healthy, you should not engage in creampies with other swingers.

Having recent negative STI test results does not mean they are 100% STI free.  Some STIs can take several weeks before they will trigger a positive test result.  There are also some bad apples in the swinging lifestyle that will lie about their STI tests.  For your best protection, you should skip creampies and always use condoms when swinging with others.

If you really want to engage with cum play & creampies with your swinging friends, you can consider forming a closed network of swingers.  These swinging groups are not open to random sex partners, which can help reduce the risk level.  Closed swinging groups aren’t perfect.  They rely on everyone in the group to honor that restriction so there is potential for trouble if someone strays.  Even if everyone does honor that restriction, you still have the risk of pregnancy to consider.  Make sure to think carefully and talk openly with your partner about what is best for the both of you.

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Written by Isabella Frappier on SexWithEmily.com.

Fantastic foreplay, is it the missing ingredient for your perfect sexual menu? I get it, sex is fun! It’s hard to wait to enjoy it, and you want to rush to the main course (penetrative sex).

However, foreplay can be just as fun, and perhaps even more so. By the time you’ve finished reading this blog, you’ll be a foreplay champ, and your lovers can thank me later.

WHY DOES FOREPLAY MATTER?

In a perfect world, we all want to be great at sex and please our lovers. However, actually doing so can be a little more challenging. Sexual communication is key, as well as having good sexual independence. This is important so that you know what you want, and also how to ask for it.

Good foreplay increases the pleasure for everyone involved before, during, and after sex. It also lessens the chances of pain during sex, which, unfortunately, is an all too common occurrence, particularly for people with vulvas.

Put simply, good foreplay equals better sex. Now that’s math I like doing. So here are my top 5 tips to help you become a foreplay champ:

1- Redefine “Sex”

The very first step in becoming a master of foreplay is… realizing that “foreplay” is actually not really a thing! Now don’t get mad or confused, thinking I’ve tricked you, I promise this is going to blow your world in the best way. When you broaden your definition of sex to include anything that has interactive sexual energy, the sexual world opens up for you.

No longer limited to segments of pre, during, and post penis (or strap on/toy) in vagina/butt penetration, sex becomes this amorphous and wonderful vehicle for pleasure. This lowers the pressure for all parties involved, and creates a much more fun and pleasure rich environment.

So, the first step to excellent foreplay is realizing that we don’t need to relegate “sex” to only meaning penis/toy into vagina/butt penetration. As well as acknowledging (or at least being open to the idea) that you can experience as much (and maybe even more) pleasure without any penetration being involved at all. For the purposes of easy reading in this article, I’ll still use the term “foreplay”, but now you and I both know what it really means.

2- Make It Personal

It’s important that foreplay is personal to what everyone involved actually likes. What revs one person’s engine might stall out another’s. So, consider what you and your partner(s) main pathway to arousal is, and how to engage them with personalized foreplay. This is something I teach with my clients, but to give you some fun entry tools, the three main pathways are:

-Sound: Most stimulated by dirty talk, compliments, and verbal flirting, the love language of words of affirmation, sensual music, etc.

-Visual: Most stimulated by the sight of their partner, sexy lingerie, seeing which sex toys will be played with, erotic dance, etc.

-Sensory: Most stimulated by delicious foods, lovely smells like scented candles and massage oils, silks, faux furs, sensual touch from their partner, etc.

Another fantastic tool to use when exploring personalizing foreplay is the erotic blueprints. Take the quiz with your partner, and chat about the different types of foreplay you would each enjoy.

3- Pre-Foreplay Foreplay 

Don’t wait until you’re naked, or even till you’re in the same room as your lover for the foreplay to begin. Try sending them flirtatious texts throughout the day to stimulate their arousal. Use the “voice memo” function on your phone to slowly describe what you’d like to do to them that night and send it off as a mid-day treat.

Once you are in the same room as them, keep the pre-foreplay going. If you or your partner have a vulva, try using a fantastic pre-lube pleasure Oil like Foria. It takes 15-30 minutes to reach full activation, which provides a fantastic natural opportunity for anticipation and tease. While you wait, get creative. Give each other a sexy striptease. Take sensual portraits of each other. Give and receive all over body massages.

When you engage in pre-foreplay foreplay, you’ll be so riled up by and sexually charged before your genitals are even touched. This creates an explosion of sensation when they are…

4- Take Your Time 

Never EVER rush foreplay. It feels amazing, builds arousal for fun later on, and is an incredible opportunity for sensual play and emotional intimacy. Don’t skip or fast-forward through foreplay, ever. After all, if the foreplay is delicious enough, it could end up being your entire meal!

5- Utilize Support Tools

You do not have to just use your hands, lips, hair, teeth, fingertips, tongue, genitals, etc for foreplay; though those are all fantastic tools for it. Sex toys can be wonderful wingmen for you, they can do things your body simply cannot. Like powerfully vibrate. Or deliver pleasure-air technology. Perhaps pinpoint your clitoral erogenous zones. Your hand can’t cool down in the freezer for some temperature play. At least, I hope it can’t.

When you’re using toys, also remember that lube can be your absolute best friend. Don’t be shy with it, and spoil yourself with the good stuff like Pjur. You won’t regret it.

So, here are some fun and sexy foreplay ideas to get your motor running: 

• – Spank your partner with a paddle or a kitchen spatula
• – Drag your hair slowly over their entire body
• – Set a timer for 60 seconds and see how aroused you can get each other without touching genitals
• – Put in a butt plug an hour before your scheduled sex date and enjoy the warm-up
• – Text your lover excerpts from your favorite erotica while you wait for them to get home
• – Use a powerful vibrator like the Magic Wand on each of your partner’s erogenous zones, and ask them to rank their pleasure from 1-10

I think you can take it from here…

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