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The year 2020 is special. It’s the beginning of a new decade, the year of a presidential election, and of course, it’s a leap year.

In Irish folklore, February 29th is considered to be “Ladies’ Choice Day”. As far as I’m concerned, every day is “Ladies Choice Day”. But it’s still fun idea to celebrate, especially in the bedroom.

It only rolls around once every 4 years. So why not bust out those “once in a blue moon” sex moves for the occasion?

To commemorate this historically rare date, here are 3 fun new Leap Day sex moves to try out. It is ladies’ choice, after all…


A great way to break free from your familiar sex routine is to take things outside the bedroom, even if you new sex locale is still within the walls of your own house. And you don’t need a jacuzzi or an indoor pool to get a little steamy… In fact, all you need is a free-standing washing machine or dryer.

Laundry isn’t very fun, but let me let you in on a little secret: it can be an erotic experience. We all know that subtle vibrations can do wonders for a woman’s sexual experience. Well your laundry machine has an entire spin cycle’s worth, making it kind of like your very own sex furniture. All you have to do to make the most of those deep-cleaning rumbles is hop on!

If you’re trying this with a partner, start by having them sit on the side of the laundry machine with his feet hanging over the edge. Once settled in, climb on top (carefully) and straddle them the same way you would in the Cowgirl position, with your knees on either side of their hips.

For an even more intimate feel, you can wrap your legs around their waist while they hold you close. Try matching your slow, sensual grinding movements with the rhythmic rumbles of the machine beneath you. While the laundry machine certainly won’t provide you with Magic Wand-level vibrations, the deep rumbles and shakes will feel pleasurable against your bare body. Depending on the strength of your spin cycle, those rumbles might even pulsate through you so she can feel the vibrations as well. Either way, you’ll feel the same about laundry again…


We’re no stranger to sex toys. Vibrators can lead to some of the best orgasms you’ll ever have. And with the Lioness, you can actually track and see your arousal and orgasms.

With cutting edge technology, the Lioness uses built in sensors and an easy-to-use mobile app to tell you exactly what makes your body feel the best. It’s the perfect tool to celebrate your leap day in the sexiest way.

Now you can enjoy ALL of the orgasms that your body is capable of, no partner necessary! If that’s not a celebration, then I don’t know what is.


Leap Day 4th pictureRole-playing allows you to let go of your inhibitions and explore your playful sides together and it’s a great way to bring novelty into a long-term sexual partnership. No real strangers are needed for that taste of the unfamiliar. Create that same thrill with your current sex partner by simply taking on a new role. Start out by dressing in your favorite seductive outfits, then graduate to taking on new identities and re-enacting your fantasies.

This is your chance to try things you would never normally do in bed, but your character might love! A simple way to try this is by going out to a bar or a nightclub with your partner. Arrive separately, pretend to have just met each other, chat a bit while pulling out all your best moves, and then coyly suggest that they come back to your place for a nightcap. The post-coital walk home is going to be a short one. As weird as it may seem at first, you’ll be surprised at how much you’ll love this scenario.


Leap year comes but only once every four years, making it more rare than any anniversary, birthday or even *gasp* anal pleasure month. Instead of letting it pass by as “just another Monday”, take it as a great opportunity to spice up your sex life!



Going To A Sex Party – 5 Things You Need To Know

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So you’re interested in checking out a sex party, but aren’t quite sure how to get started. Fortunately for you, there are underground sex parties just about everywhere, especially in larger cities. Because of health codes, laws and regulations, most sex parties are “roaming” and move from place to place – often from someone’s posh pad to another. If you want to attend a sex party but aren’t sure how to get to one – and what to do once you’re there – check out these simple but essential rules that will help get you started.

Scoring An Invite

An invitation to a swinging get together or sex party isn’t something you’re going to get in the mail. Since most of these groups meet secretly, they’re considered “underground” and usually invites are given simply by word of mouth. Therefore, to get into a sex party – especially a top notch, elite one – you’re going to have to be connected. Invites to the sex party are given by the hosts to certain people, and they in turn invite people that they think would be a good addition. However, not everyone that hears about the get together are able to invite people. Since it only takes one jackass to ruin a great sex party, invitations are issued discerningly. Score your invite by getting out there and befriending people that are likely to be into that scene.

Condoms Are A Must

At a sex party, condoms are an absolute must. Of course if you and your partner are “watching only” and simply participating in sex with each other, that’s a different story. However, if you plan to be having sex with anyone else at the shindig, bring your own protection. A good host will have a “grab bag” of latex and polyurethane goodies that can be passed around, but depending on the type of get together you’re going to, they may not. It’s better to be safe than sorry, so slip a few condoms in your purse before you leave. Don’t expect to have sex with anyone else there without the proper protection.

Alcohol Is At The Discretion Of The Host

Depending on the type of sex party you’re going to and the preferences of the host, there may or may not be alcohol available. Hosts that have been jaded in the past by a drunk that ruined the shindig (because it only takes one) will most likely keep it alcohol free. Some hosts will provide alcohol for a steeper cover charge, or they will allow guests to bring their own and have a bartender there to serve it. Make sure you’re fully aware of the alcohol policy before you go, lest you bring a bottle of wine to an alcohol free party or end up alcohol-less when everyone else has something to ease their jitters.

Everything Must Be Consensual

Remember the golden rule about sex – anything that goes on between consenting adults is all in good fun as long as no one gets hurt. While there may be some questionably painful BDSM going on at your chosen shindig, it is usually okay as long as everyone involved in the activity consents to what is going on. If you’re not into something in particular, like anal sex, make sure you gravitate more towards others who are taking part in activities that you are more comfortable with. Don’t judge, because nobody at a sex party wants someone around who will look down on them for what they’re doing. On the same token, remember that anything you want to do with someone else must be agreed upon beforehand – even if it’s something as simple as giving them a slap on the rear.

Single Guys Are Usually Not Allowed

Many sex parties and sex clubs require that men come accompanied by women and single guys looking to hook up just aren’t welcome. Single guys who want to get into the sex party scene can come with a friend of theirs that is a girl, as long as they appear to be a couple and are comfortable with having sex with each other and other people. Guys, of course, must be on their best behavior and any guy that is being lewd or rude is going to get the boot – and his girl will end up outside with him. Single women, however, are almost always welcomed at these kinds of get togethers, because many couples are looking for a single woman to join the fun. Just remember that the cardinal rule of all sex parties is this: be safe, polite and have fun.



Body Language That Turns Women Off

Body language is an important tool to use to attract ladies. But are your actions actually sending girls the other way?

Body Language That Women Don’t Like

It has been said that 80% of all communication comes from body language. This is a form of non-verbal communiqué that has the ability to instantly turn women off. When you use the right actions, you send a message to women telling them you are confident and available. When you use the wrong actions, the thought of dating you can go out the window in just a couple of seconds.

If you are not completely aware of your non-verbal communication, you could easily lose her. When you implement the right kind of non-verbal communication, you will be able to instantly show your qualifications as a potential date. Here are some examples of body language that women don’t like.

Eye Contact

Eye contact is essential to showing your confidence. When you make eye contact with a woman, the most natural thing to do is look away. If you instantly look away, the amount of confidence being conveyed goes through the floor. The best way to overcome this is to make contact with the woman and then keep the eye contact until she looks away. This will usually occur within a couple of seconds. When she looks away first, it shows submission.

Here is a guideline:

  • Make eye contact with her.
  • Wait for her to reciprocate.
  • Maintain the eye contact.
  • Wait for her to look away.
  • You look away.



Posture can be a magnet to women. Do you remember your teachers showing you how to properly sit in a chair during grammar school? Regress back to the 3rd grade and implement this back into your life. Posture is non-verbal communication that can turn women off from a distance. Slouching while sitting or standing does not convey confidence. Posture can convey power. The best way to overcome bad posture is to suck in your stomach a little and hold your head up. Arch your back slightly to pull back your shoulders.

This might feel a little strange at first, but it works. Try to make yourself look as big as possible. Women are not attracted to men who slouch. Just think, how attractive was Al Bundy?


Fidgeting is definitely something that turns women off. When you fidget you suggest nervousness. Women don’t want a man that is nervous when they are talking to them. This can apply to when you approach her and during the opening conversation. Making really fast movements and playing with your belt or zipper instantly shows that you are submissive to her power. The most frequent signs that a girl is into you involve HER playing with her hair, playing with jewelry or any other nervous tick.

So when you think about it, this role should be reversed. Instead of you making these movements, you should be making her fidget. When you are talking to a woman, have a mental picture of a hypnotist. A hypnotist makes very slow and calculated movements. These are there for a reason. These movements make the person being hypnotized anticipate the movements. This brings mysteriousness to your personality and will convey dominance.

The Tone Of Your Voice

The tone of your voice is technically “language” but it’s also a form of body language that can turn women off. There is a certain tone that must be applied when talking to women. If you have ever taken a public speaking class, you should know that your voice sends a message. This is applicable to talking to women also. Weak and squeaky voice tone is not attractive. There is a breathing exercise that will help you out. Breath in to fill your stomach instead of your lungs. Talk as you breath out to achieve a deeper voice.

Body language is essential to showing that you are a confidence man with a lot to offer both sexually and from a personality standpoint. When you use body language that turns women off, you aren’t getting the message through. When you fully implement the right actions, you could see a rise in the amount of women that respond to you in a positive manner.

Eye contact is your first point of interaction. Once she has submitted to your eye contact, you can approach with confidence. Use the correct posture in your walk when you approach her and she will be instantly open to a conversation. Make slow movements while you are talking to her and watch for the signs of fidgeting. Implement your deeper voice tone and she will be putty in your hands.