Written by SexWithEmily.com
Regardless of how “adventurous” you consider yourself in the bedroom, butt sex can feel tricky to even the most experienced. But to anyone who thinks it’s doggy style or bust, it’s time to think again, my friends!
Anal August is coming to a close, and it’s our goal to spend the month paying tribute to the world of backdoor play. As social stigmas surrounding it have begun to melt further away, there’s no denying it’s something a lot of people are growing more curious to try. However, if you aren’t yet an ace when it comes to anal, it’s important to know there are a ton of different ways to do it – positions, most definitely included.
So how do you figure out which one will make and not break the experience? Well, it often depends on your experience level. But no matter how well versed in the art of butt play you may or may not be, we totally have your back with this master list of favorite anal sex-friendly positions.
1. THE DEEP SPOON
When venturing into the world of anal, a great way to kick things off is with comfort. So instead of thinking you have to assume Cirque du Soleil-level moves, try your hand at one you probably know quite well—spooning! When both partners are snuggled up while laying on their sides, the “big spoon” has grade-A entry without having to do much at all. Because it’s such an inherently comfortable position, it’s also easier for the “little spoon” to keep their anal muscles relaxed. The relaxation makes for a more pleasurable and stress-free experience.
2. THE LAP DANCE
In any instance where the penetrated partner is on top, they hold the reins of how deep and slow you go. This, position that’s especially great for backdoor beginners is the classic Lap Dance. Equal parts exciting and easy, the penetrating partner sits in a chair or on the side of the bed while the other gently slides onto them. That way, you can sensually swirl and grind on each other in a way that eases into the unique sensation – and doesn’t feel intimidatingly submissive, either.
3. SEXY STARFISH
Building on the same penetratee-on-top perks, the sexy starfish is also a stellar option for those new to the realm of anal. To set the scene, the giving partner first lays on their back and plants their feet to provide ready, steady support. Then, the receiving partner lays on top of them (facing upwards) and arches their back a little to allow for sexy entry. As a result, the receiver retains maximum control of depth, speed and intensity the whole time. This hot backdoor position ensures a pleasurable, painless experience for all. And not to mention, it comes with a lot of steamy skin-to-skin contact, too.
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