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Written by SwingersHelp.com
It’s uber hard being a single man in the swinging world. As much as its an amazing experience, it is also a huge challenge that takes a good amount of time and effort. If you are having trouble as a single man in the swinging lifestyle, you are not alone. The good news is that much of the challenge a single man faces is from overcoming his own mistakes. We are here to help educate you so you can be the best darn single man in the lifestyle and be desired by all your sexy local swingers.
Put real effort into your online profile.
The supply of single men is higher than the demand so your swing game needs to be stronger. Don’t just be one of the guys in the lazy crowd. Post good pictures of yourself. Make sure they give a good & accurate representation of your current self. Write an appealing description that shares your personality and shows you are not just some desperate, horny man.
Upgrade your photos.
Too many single men ruin their chances by using horrible pictures. What are the right type of pictures? Make sure they are recent, in focus, & speak to your personality. Show off your sexy eyes — don’t hide them behind sunglasses. Have a clean & attractive background. Don’t have a room filled with dirty clothes or bathroom stalls behind you when you are trying to convey sexiness in your pictures. Communicate that you take privacy seriously by having only yourself in the picture. Skip group pictures or pictures with your ex-girlfriend. Give a good sense of your physical shape by showing your body and not hiding behind bulky clothes. If you don’t show your body, couples will fear you are too obese to last for a long sexy play session. Or they’ll think you lack confidence, which is the opposite of sexy. Make sure to share multiple pictures from different situations to show you aren’t a fake profile using a single stolen picture.
Read the entire profile TWICE before texting ONCE.
Remember we don’t want to waste anyone’s time and we want to demonstrate you can be a really good teammate who can be trusted. So thoroughly read their profile. This way you can make sure you will be a good match for them and can introduce yourself with a much more attractive message by referring to the things they like in their profile.
Show respect to everyone including men.
When you are emailing or texting with a couple, you are probably talking with the man most of the time. Make sure you are friendly & respectful to him. He is looking for a teammate, not competition. Remember that swinging is different from cuckolding so make sure you act accordingly. You want to use your best swinger etiquette as a single man.
Work together.
Don’t ask the wife or girlfriend to meet up separately. Assume they will arrive for the first meeting as a couple and leave as a couple. If they are open to solo dates, they will let the single man know. Couples will steer clear from any hint of drama or headaches. Single men need to remember they are only a bonus to the swinger couple’s great relationship, they are not a replacement.
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