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There are a lot of terms related to hotwifing that you probably never came across in your vanilla days, and some of them can be a little confusing. To help you better connect with the community, we’ll breakdown some of the most common terms. So you will have a better understanding of why and where the terms all came from and how you can use them best navigate your hotwifing journey.
Hotwife
Let’s start with the most basic term. A hotwife is a woman who indulges in sexual relationships outside of her marriage/relationship with her husband’s knowledge and consent. She can do this with solo adventures or with her husband. This is all part of the ethical non-monogamy umbrella.
There are many different variations of hotwife relationships including where sometimes the woman has sex with another man while her husband is present or she can go out on solo dates with single men or cruise the town to try and hook up with strangers. Her husband can choose to wait at home and enjoys knowing she is out having fun and will bring back hot details to share with him. Countless arrangements could fall under hotwifing because there is plenty of flexibility for couples to decide their own boundaries.
Vixen
Many people use the term vixen as just another word for a hotwife. Vixens tend to enjoy the hotwife lifestyle together with their husband. They are a confident & sexy couple that both enjoy having the lady show off in front of other men. A Vixen’s husband is referred to as a Stag.
Stag
A Stag is the other half to a Vixen and was born out of the necessity to differentiate hotwife husbands who enjoy sharing their partner but are not submissive or into humiliation like a cuckold. To the hot wife, the Stag is always her main priority and the number one man in her life that no outsider will live up to. For the Stag he enjoys the voyeuristic aspect of watching his sexy wife perform and impress others. Knowing that other men find his wife desirable is a common motivation for many Stags. Some Stags prefer a more dominant role, as they direct the action and maybe even joins in for a threesome.
Cuckold
A cuckold is a husband who enjoys his hotwife having sex with alpha men instead of himself. He likes the submissive elements of hotwifing and enjoys the degradation and humiliation aspects. In these arrangements, the hotwife is superior and free to do what she pleases outside of the marriage. Many powerful men enjoy being a cuckold because it provides them the freedom of not having to control or take care of anything. There are many variations of cuckolds ranging from simply being a witness to actively being humiliated to the cuckold being forced to stay home and have to hear about it later.
Bull
Usually, a bull refers to any man who is having sex with a hotwife who isn’t her husband/partner. He is generally an alpha dominant male and knows that he is there to deliver great sex to the hotwife and then leave and that that is his only purpose. Whereas she has an emotional connection with her husband, a hotwife’s relationship with her bull is purely sexual.
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