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When you venture out into the real life swinging lifestyle, it can be a bit hard staying in sync with your special someone. You will be meeting plenty of new people and encountering plenty of first time experiences. So there is a good chance one of you might not always feel comfortable or happy. Most swingers don’t want to blurt their true feeling out loud for others to hear. So how does a couple stay connected with each other? This is where secret swinger codes & signs come to the rescue.
These are the subtle ways a couple can communicate privately with each other while they are surrounded by other people without exposing their feelings to everyone in the room. Many swinger couples like to have a few signals and/or codewords to indicate different things like “I’m happy, let’s proceed” or “I’m not comfortable, want to leave ASAP.” Secret signals are a great tool couples can use to communicate at all times and make swinging experiences happy & fun rather than confusing and awkward.
In general, you want to pick things that will be completely obvious to you but not noticeable to others. You want to make your signals super simple and easy to remember because if you can’t remember them, they aren’t really useful. Make sure to talk this over with your partner and agree on what you both want to use. It is very smart to remind yourselves the signals and codes are before each date, party or swinger club visit. Here are some examples that you can use or modify to your own preferences.
What to Communicate
Here are four common types of messages swinging couples like to have a secret way to communicate – 1) All good, open to play, 2) Unhappy, want to leave, 3) Indifferent, up to you, 4) Happy, not ready yet for physical fun.
You can pick other messages to assign secret codes & signals but it makes it harder and more likely that a miscommunication will happen. What else would you want to communicate? 5) You’re getting drunk, stop the alcohol, 6) you’re talking too loud, vanilla people are listening in. Honestly ,it is wiser to use fewer messages. Keeping it simple and easy makes it is less likely for a mistake to happen. You don’t want to be arguing over mistaken signals when reconnecting after swinging.
Secret Codewords
Asking for a drink you hate – For example, if you never drink beer and you ask your significant other to order you a beer at the bar, that could be a great way to communicate that you do not feel a connection and would like to make a graceful exit. You could assign different sexy drinks to mean different things. For example, asking for “tequila shots” could be a way to secretly communicate with your partner that you are happy & open to playing with your new swinger friends.
Cities/Places – You could assign different cities to mean different secret messages. Have you ever had a horrible trip like an 8 hour airport delay in Detroit? “Detroit” could be your code that it’s bad and you need to bail ASAP. Mentioning “Sydney” could be your secret message that you are open to going Down Under & playing with them. This works best when you pick less popular cities that aren’t likely to pop-up in regular conversations so you won’t accidentally use your secret city codeword when you aren’t intending to use it. Since swingers often talk about visiting Desire Resorts or Hedo, best not to pick those places.
People – We all have people who we love & find sexy and other people who are headaches in our lives. You can pick people and assign them different meanings. Preferably the people you pick do not have common names so you won’t accidentally mention your secret person code at the wrong time. For example, you might repurpose your boss named Edmund to be the secret code for “unhappy, need to bail out”. Maybe you have a crush on a celebrity like Kate Hudson, so mentioning Kate Hudson being in a new movie could be your secret way to signal “all good, ready to play”.
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