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Swingers are a friendly bunch. The friendlier you are, the better chances for sexy fun and swingers love sexy fun! If you are at a swinging lifestyle party or club, it is safe to assume everyone is a potential sexy connection.
Just remember that potential does not mean anything is guaranteed or effortless. It also doesn’t mean you have to participate in anything. At anytime during the swinger flirting process, anyone can stop it. No means no and it is always acceptable to say no thanks at anytime.
How do you know if a swinger couple wants to have sex with you?
The seductive flirting process is different depending on the person and situation but there is a general flow to flirting among swingers. Here is an simplified explanation of this flirting process and how it escalates from being friendly to making a sexy connection to actually having sexy playtime. Hopefully this can help you better judge swinger scenarios and minimize any potential miscommunication & misunderstandings.
Flirting Step 1 – Showing Up
Showing up to a lifestyle event means they are open to making a sexy connection. Just like a single person going to singles bar is potentially open to hooking up if they find the right person. Swingers aren’t nymphomaniacs so it doesn’t mean there will be sexy play but there is definitely hope that eventually a sexy time will be enjoyed with the right match.
Flirting Step 2 – Talking With You
This shows they aren’t turned off but it doesn’t mean they are turned on either. Feel free to talk with as many people as you like at swinger events. Most people want to have sexy time that night so they tend to focus most of their conversations with potential sexy connections. If they move on, don’t be upset. You don’t know if they aren’t interested or if they incorrectly assumed you weren’t interested. If you aren’t interested you can stop talking anytime so you don’t waste your chance to find a sexy connection. You can politely excuse yourself to get another drink or get some fresh air or call the babysitter as an excuse to withdraw and move on to another couple. Talking with swingers shows a low level of interest but an easy one to build upon.
Flirting Step 3 – Compliments
If swingers want to build a sexy connection, they will start dropping compliments. It depends on what they focus their attention on. If they compliment your plate of food from the buffet, its just being friendly & polite. If they compliment something more personal, like how sexy you look, then they are open to getting to know you better. Remember being open to the idea is not a guarantee. If you want a sexy connection, then you should make some sexy compliments about their clothes, body, dance moves, etc. to show your potential interest. Swingers can’t read minds, so make sure to demonstrate your interest in them with some nice words.
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