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We all enjoy some oral sex but if you want to have repeat sessions of this fun treat, it would be a good idea to follow some basic rules of etiquette. You & your regular partner probably have a good understanding and don’t need to think about these issues. But when you start swinging with new people there won’t be that understanding. To keep everyone happy & protect your reputation as a good swinging partner, we are going to spell out many different aspects to handle for hot, happy & consensual oral sex.
Communicate With Your Partner
It doesn’t matter if you are soft swap, full swap or whatever. Make sure to ask your swinging partner what is allowed and preferred. Don’t assume anything. Some people prefer to be on top and others prefer the bottom or laying on their side when giving oral attention. Some people like a very soft approach & others enjoy being more vigorous. ASK! Don’t assume anything.
Gently Ease In
Hopefully you already asked and know what they like & where you can finish. Still you should always start slow & ease into it. It is easier to turn up the volume and go harder than it is to dial back. If you go too hard, too soon you can risk making it not feel good and having the entire play date stop. Not everyone’s definition of hard, rough, fast or deep is the same. Ease into it and use their feedback to adjust accordingly. When in doubt, ask. Don’t roughly pull hair or ears. Even if they ask for it, gradually ease into it.
Landscaping
Everyone has different preferences when it comes to grooming and the swinging lifestyle. Start with the basics – be freshly showered. Then focus on your hair down there. You don’t need to go bald but at least tidy things up. Coughing up hairballs is what cats do, not swingers.
Diet Changes Flavor
Yes, your diet can actually impact the flavor of your flow so take some smart precautions. Increase your fruit intake 2-3 days before a date for a sweeter taste (pineapple really works wonders). Skip asparagus the day of fun to avoid junkyard smells. In general try to decrease coffee, cigarettes, and red meat which can lead to slightly bitter flavors.
Dessert Buffet
If you are going to bring in some sweet stuff like chocolate sauce, whip cream, sucking candies, or whatever to make the oral session into a sweet dessert, be careful to keep everything on the outside. Sugar and other stuff can screw up the internal balance and boost the chance of an infection. Play it safe and keep it on the outside.
Scrub Up
This one really should go without saying but we’ve heard too many horror stories to leave it out. If you are going to have fun with a lady, wash your hands before the fun. Oral attention often involves some fingers and dirty fingers can lead to UTIs. Never play with the brown side before playing with the pink side, that also greatly increases the chance of UTI. If you give a lady a UTI, she is not going to be happy with you. Be smart & use good hygiene. If you are going to have fun with a guy and you have been eating something spicy – make sure you wash up. A little spice residue can burn extra hot on the sensitive skin down below.
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