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Just as men have erotic fantasies involving two or more ladies at a time, women too imagine themselves having sex with multiple men at once. Arranging a swinger gangbang can be very a rewarding experience for both of you if that is what you personally enjoy. If you don’t know where to start, this step-by-step guide will teach you all you need to know to set up the event like a pro.
Understand What She Really Wants
The secret to a successful gangbang starts with understanding what the lady really wants. Ladies – if you are reading this, think about what you really want out of this. Gangbangs are a more advanced sex party involving a large number of people. If you aren’t clear about what you want and do not want, things can spiral out of control quickly.There is a big difference between fantasy and reality. Some women enjoy imagining themselves having sex with multiple men at once, although they may not feel comfortable to actually do it in real life. You both should think twice before proceeding because surprises are usually not fun during a gangbang. Talk through your plans and make sure you are both comfortable with the idea before inviting anyone.
Understand Your Roles
During a gangbang, things can easily get out of control unless there is someone overseeing it. Thus, the man’s role is usually not being one of the bangers. He is usually the coordinator and the one who ensures the lady’s safety especially if you are inviting men you have never met before.If the man is not comfortable with just watching and ensuring that things run smoothly, perhaps it would be better to ask another swinger you have met before to organize and coordinate the event.The lady also needs to participate and not just in having sex. Before the gangbang, the lady should be involved in screening the men to ensure everyone is a good match. You don’t want to have to reject anyone while you are in the middle of the gangbang. The lady also needs to communicate with her man regularly during the gangbang so he knows if she is ok or if she needs anything. Establish a few safety words and signs you can use to stay happy & safe.
Establish Rules and Limits For Your Gangbang
It is crucial to establish swinging rules and follow the limits that the lady wants. The rules helps everyone have a good time and greatly reduces the odds of a man accidentally ruining the sexy moment. Men aren’t good mind readers but veteran swinging men are great at follow rules & instructions. Make sure you clearly communicate with them your personal rules.Make a list with all off-limits activities and share exactly what can be penetrated and by which body parts. Think about full sex, oral, & anal activities. What is and is not allowed? What about rules regarding the use of condoms and ejaculate? Don’t assume anything. Clearly communicate your preference and limitations to each man attending.
Determine The Size of The Event
Gangbangs can mean anything from your wife and three men to your wife and dozens of men. Although you can arrange an orgy of any size, starting small is the wiser option for everyone involved. You can always arrange a larger gangbang next time around. Swingers tend to be flaky and no show but horny single men tend to always show up when there is an attractive sexy lady looking for fun. Play it safe and don’t over invite.
Find a Suitable Hosting Site
Once you determined the number of participants, it’s time to find a suitable hosting site for this orgy. A hotel room could be a suitable solution for a small bang, especially if you want to keep it as private as possible. Some couples ask the visiting men to donate towards the cost of the hotel room or to bring some food or drink to be shared. Be careful in the USA with any payments. They can open you up for arrest due to the FOSTA law. Another option is to contact your local swinging club. Most clubs can host your party and even help you with the logistics and suggesting experienced single men good with following rules if you find it too overwhelming to arrange everything on your own. Swinging clubs apart, you can also find support, ideas, and even bangers on your local swinger dating websites.
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