Your wardrobe is filled with outfits for the office, formal events, casual nights with friends, pajamas, and swimwear. But do you have anything to wear to a swingers party? Deciding which clothes to wear can be one of the hardest parts of getting involved in the swingers lifestyle, but it is really just a matter of taste, comfort, expectations, and confidence.
Dress code
Before you start thinking about anything, check the dress code. You don’t want to be walking into a party dressed too casually if the theme was burlesque. Dress codes can make the decision of what to wear a bit easier and you know you will fit in if you stick to the guidelines. Not to mention you want to make sure you look as good as your lady in her sexy swinging outfit.
Some venues will have strict rules on things like sneakers, so make sure your night isn’t ruined by carefully reading the information on their website or calling in advance.
If you found a private swinger party, these are usually smart casual events. Best to still ask the host and not assume anything.
Well-fitted
You might think a tighter shirt shows off your abs or tighter trousers show off your package and make you look sexier, but if you’re having to suck your gut in or constantly adjust your crotch, you definitely won’t feel it. If you want to look good, you need to feel good too, so make sure you wear clothes that are comfortable. Try to find a balance between comfortable well fitted – be warned, baggy might be more comfortable but it might not be flattering.
If you find that you don’t have anything that fits you well, consider taking your favorite shirts or trousers to a tailor to get them altered, or treating yourself to a new outfit.
Tasteful
Just because your new friends are more open about sex, doesn’t mean they can’t be offended. Think of it like a job interview (only they might try and gauge your sexual preferences, rather than relevant qualifications), so first impressions matter.
Avoid anything that might provoke the wrong reaction, such as slogan T-shirts or anything political, no matter how passionate you are about your cause. Swinging is an opportunity for you to bond with people from all backgrounds, not to throw up new walls.
Easy to Take Off
This one often goes missed by people new to the swingers’ scene. Make sure, if you want to take your clothes off, it is possible to actually take them off.
It might be tempting to try something new that signals how adventurous you are or how sexy you feel, like leather or rubber trousers, or a bondage top, but you might find yourself struggling to take them off in the heat of the moment… or put them back on afterward.
It’s best to avoid anything with complicated straps or fastenings, or anything so figure-hugging you feel like you’re being unwrapped rather than undressed.
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